Interviewer: Helen
Galkina
Interviewee: Chandras Pandey
Location: Centennial
Hall, SCSU
2:30 pm (10/19/2012)
H-Helen
C-Chandras
H- Hello, my name is Helen and
what’s your name?
C- My name is
Chandras Pandey, but I go by Chandra.
H- Ok, Chandra. And where are
you from?
C- I am from Kathmandu, Nepal.
H- Kathmandu is the capital
city of Nepal, isn’t it?
C- Yep. You are right.
H-How would you introduce Nepal
to somebody who has never heard of it?
C-(sweet smile) Nepal is
naturally one of the most beautiful places you’d ever see.
H- (smile) ok! So, you came to the US to
study…How long have you been studying here?
C- Yah. It’s been 4 years now.
H- Why did you choose to study at St.Cloud
University?
C- I have been asked this question a lot.
(chuckles). I chose this school because one of my high school friends came here
before me. And I got to know about this
university through him. I did some research about this university and the
program that I liked…plus despite being an international student I don’t have
to pay out of state tuition. So I planned to come here.
H- I see. That is a good point. So Mr.
Pandey, what is your major?
C- Electrical engineering
H- Nice! You seem to be a very smart person
then? What made you choose this major?
C- Actually, Math and Science is taught
universally with a same rule. I had interest in these fields since my high
school days. So I thought about getting a degree in that.
H- So, you are a senior now, right?
C- Yup.
H- What are you planning to do after school?
C- I want to go for a masters program in the
same field.
H- That is a good idea! You can find a
better job because of your master degree! Good luck!
C – I hope so… thank you!!!
H- So Chandra, tell me. Have you found any differences
in educational systems between Nepal and the US?
C- There is a lot of differences
from elementary school to university. .. We have to wear uniform to go to
school but here they don’t care what students wear... unless it’s a private
school (laughs). And classes are totally different. Here student have to go
from one room to another to attend classes but back home, teachers change
rooms. Here, midterms, assignments, project and finals everything is summed up
to calculate grade but there, your final exam determines your grade.
H- Is it based on
credits or do you have a fixed set of classes to take?
C- We have pre-designed courses for every
semester. That is you cannot choose classes like here.
H- Okay. Let’s skip education for now. Let’s
talk about your family. How many
members are there in your family?
C- There are 4 members… Dad, mom, my brother
and I.
H- What about your grandparents? Do they live
with your parents? Do they work and live on their own?
C- They used to live in village on their own
but they live with my parents now. They
are both retired and are mostly involved in social and religious activities.
H- Was it really hard for your parents to
agree with you to come here?
C- Not really. My mom was actually excited but when I was leaving
she felt really bad.
H- What about your brother? Is he still in
Nepal?
C- No he is in Germany, studying just like
me!!
H- That should be really tough for your
mother then?
C- We talk to her through Skype almost on every day basis . So
she is fine now I guess.
H- How was your life different from the lifestyle in the US?
C-
The main thing I learnt here is the value of time. Time flies so fast here but
back home people have a lot of time. System is different and so is the way of
living.
H- What do you like to do here? Any special hobbies?
C- I like playing sports. I also
like watching American football now although I came to know about the game
after coming to the states.
H- Do young people do same
activities in your country like in the US?
C- No, I like how young people
work and earn their pocket money here. But back home they are dependent on
their parents until they graduate from college
or find a job. So ya, there are a lot of differences.
H- Thank you very much Chandra. Let’s talk about major holidays
in your country now. I know this week is the ‘Dashain’ for you guys. Tell me
something about it.
C- Well,
Dashain is the biggest festival in Nepal, along with Tihar. Dashain spans well
over 14 days and is celebrated with great enthusiasm all over the country. It
marks the victory of truth over evil. Everybody gets together and every single
person has a good time during this auspicious occasion.
H-
That sounds interesting. Are you celebrating Dashain with your Nepalese friends
here?
C-
Not really. I don’t have time for that. But we make out traditional food during
this week. By the way, there was Dashain night at Atwood this Saturday. Did you
go to watch it?
H-
No… Unfortunately I missed it... I just saw the funny video from that night…
how Nepalese students were dancing in ‘Gangnam style’s parody’ (smile)…so, ya... I heard it was super fun. I’ll go next time…
H-
And what about other holidays in your country… Could you tell me something more
about it?
C- Nepal
probably has more festivals than number of days in the year!!! There are a lot
of festivals… Apart from Dashain, there is Tihar which is festival of lights,
Holi… festival of colors, Janai Purnima, Maghe Sakranti and so many more… I
can’t even name all of them!!!
H-
Wow!! That is so interesting! You also mentioned about your traditional food
earlier! Could you tell me more about it?!
C- Well, Nepal is in Asia and as you know… We Asian
love rice!!! So, rice is an integral part of our cuisine. Most of our food is
spicy and very tasteful, but the one I like the most is Momo. It is more like a
dumpling but lot better!!!
H-
Oh! It sounds tasty! I love Nepalese food!! One of my Nepalese friends taught
me how to make chicken curry... so, I might make you some curry some day!!!
C- I
would love too!! (Smile)
H-
So, Do you know how to cook your traditional food?
C-
Yes, of course!!
H-
Where did you learn it? In the US or back home?
C- I
learnt it in the US... I asked my mom for some recipes and tried to do my best to cook it! I like cooking though. When I
was back home, my mom used to cook for me and I didn’t really care how to cook.
But here I live on my own so I had no other options than cooking on my own.
H-
That is a good thing that you cook. You can save some money then!
C-
Sure (smile)
H-
Well, what about your country's major religions then? Your country
predominantly follows Buddhism and Hinduism, right?
C-
Yes, You are right. About 80% of Nepalese are Hindu, 10% are Buddhist. However
there are also Muslims, Christains and people who follow their ethnic religion!
H-
I’ve heard you guys have 4 different castes. Could you tell me more about it?
C- The Nepali caste system is complex. Nepal
consist of 4 social classes Brahmin, Kshatriya, Vaishya and Sudra and these are
the 4 major castes on which people are divided.
H-
How these 4 social classes different from each other?
C- This was done during the ancient times,
basically, according to the profession of people. Priests, sages and wise men
were given the highest ranks and were called Brahmins, warriors and kings were
called Kshatriya. Vaisya and Sudras were considered to be the lower members of
the societies and included manual labors and farmers.
H-
And what Caste do you belong to?
C-
Brahmin
H- And
could tell me something about your Caste (Brahmin)?
C- Well… because of I’m
from highest level I have to get married the girl from the same caste as well.
But my family is exception because they are liberal people and they don’t mind
whom I will choose as a bride. And actually this tradition still exists in
some villages.
H- Okay…
The wise man huh!!!
And now I want to talk about your
country's traditional process regarding marriage. Tell me something about it.
C- Most of the marriages in Nepal are arranged by
the family… but we can see a lot of love marriages nowadays. As far as the
customs and rituals during marriage go, it’s very complicated. Marriage is
mostly celebrated for 2 days. The groom goes to bride’s house, marries her and
brings her to his house. Then, they go through several rituals at his place
again the very next day!
Also,
I would love to add that bride has to wear red dress (sari) on the wedding but white
dress (sari) women wear if someone died. That is what opposite from the US
culture.
H- And what do most women do after they get married? Do
they work or act as a housewife?
C- In the past most women would act as housewife.
Stay at home and take care of children. But times are changing now… Since more
women are educated now, they live a normal life as before they were married.
However, the situation of women in villages is still the same. Once they get
married, they just end up being a housewife.
H- And now the last
question! What are the differences between your culture and the American
culture?
C- Everything I
suppose!! US has a high context culture. Everyone is direct and forward. It’s
not the case in Nepal and moreover people here know the value of time!
H- Thank you so much
Chandra for your time and help!
C- No problem at all!
H- Is there anything
else would you like to add before we end our interview?
C- I think, I’ve said
everything.
H- Ok. Do you have
any questions for me, now that I have had the pleasure of asking you about so
many things?
C- Not really…It was
my pleasure to help you with your assignment! Good luck with your class! I got
to go to work now! See you later!
That was the end of my first interview with Chandra Pandey. I desire to
learn some more about this country from my 2 other interviewees.